Awakening affection for God and each other.

Our Mission

And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. - Colossians 3:14.

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Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. - Ecclesiastes 4:9

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Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. - 1 Peter 4:8

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…a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. - Genesis 2:24

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Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. - Proverbs 3:3

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So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. - Matthew 19:6

And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. - Colossians 3:14. | Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. - Ecclesiastes 4:9 | Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. - 1 Peter 4:8 | …a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. - Genesis 2:24 | Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. - Proverbs 3:3 | So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. - Matthew 19:6

We’re Carl + Heather,

Nobody wants their marriage to fail. We all crave connection; when it breaks, the pain runs deep, affecting every part of our lives. Marriage is hard work, and even with a "soul mate," differences can pull us apart.

For over 25 years, we've learned that the key to thriving in marriage is keeping Jesus at the center. We love walking alongside couples, helping their marriages flourish. Whether you’ve been married for months or decades, every marriage is worth fighting for. Let’s fight together.

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"Carl and Heather Present" is our podcast where a songwriter and a scientist (that’s us!) dive into the humor, insights, and challenges of staying married to someone completely different—and still being in love. After 25 years of navigating conflict, resolution, and everything in between, we’ve decided to talk openly about our journey, how we’ve made it work, and how we keep finding reasons to stay together. Tune in for Carl’s world-class humor and Heather’s relentless ability to stay unimpressed.

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Whether at church conferences, custom events, intimate one-night Couple’s Connection gatherings, or transformative weekend retreats, Carl and Heather bring their real-life experiences and powerful lessons to couples and churches. Their tailored messages offer unique insights that inspire couples to grow closer to each other and deepen their relationship with Christ.